We have all faced jump ball situations in our life .You have no idea what lies ahead or even what to expect.The only sure thing is the game has started and you are in it. Uncertainty can feel like a heavy weight that seems unbearable to carry. It is fear, sprinkled with anxiety, and topped with the lack of information. It leaves you questioning everything and not being confident about anything. Change is constant and not being in control is scary. There is safety in habits and routines. The expectations of the day to day activities are predictable and our way of life.The question is “What do I do when there is an unexpected disruption in my life? Sudden loss of a loved one, illness, unemployment, divorce, infertility, or even derailed dreams. There is only one thing to do and that is, TRUST IN THE NAME OF THE LORD. Let faith be the vehicle that transports you through the rocky places. The rocky places seem like it takes a lifetime to travel because it is all that you can focus on at the time. Just remember that what you can’t see is very important. Something supernatural is happening to your faith in God. It is flourishing in your heart.Every test that HE brings you through,( because you are coming out of it) is a testament to his goodness! Uncertainty and doubt begin to lose its ground and voice. You are strengthened with each trial and test. This is not the time to be bitter about God making you better.Your faith is on assignment in your life to help you see that the impossible is possible with God on your side.All you have to do is have faith and not doubt then you can command your obstacles to be moved and it will.

He repiled, Because you have so little faith .Truly I tell you, If you have faith the size of a mustard seed,you can say to the mountain, Move from here to there,and it will move. Nothing shall be impossible for you.” (Matt 17:20)

Declare this over your life,

Lord, let my faith be activated daily.Give me a thirst to study your word because faith comes by hearing.I will trust you wholeheartedly and not rely on my senses or understanding.I will walk by faith and not by sight.

You can have what you say. #FAITHUP

Let’s talk about what do you do in the face of uncertainty? Share in the comments below.

Until next time,



Prayer For Uncertainty

Prayer For Uncertainty 

Lord as I come to you today I want to first thank you for being who you are. I thank you for everything that you have done and everything that you continue to do in my life. For the times I have failed you and went against your word, Lord I repent for those sins. Lord cleanse my soul and spirit of anything that is unlike you.

Lord as I embark on these new adventures of my life, Lord please be with me. For Lord, I don’t know what is best and I don’t know what I should do, I don’t know what tomorrow holds but you do Lord. Lead me to wherever I need to go in life. Lord order my steps. For Lord, I understand that I can’t do anything without you but with you all things are possible. For Lord every door that is not for me close, and every door that is for me please open. Lord guide me with discernment, protect me with your strength and shield me with your favor.

Lord during this journey I will trust you. Lord, I have the utmost faith in you. Lord, I need you and I love you. Lord, I give you the most utmost praise. Lord may your love rain down on me, may your blessing rain down on me. For you are so powerful, Lord. Your so amazing, worthy of praise. Lord, I know that it is already done and I thank you in advance.

In the Lord’s name, we pray…

Amen ❤

So many times we pray to the Lord and ask him for the desires of our heart. We ask him to remove anything or anybody that is unlike him, we ask him to build and grow us but when he does we become unsure or uncertain about what he is revealing. As believers, we must trust the Lord and have faith in everything He does. In the same spirit that we pray in, we must keep that same spirit and pray for discernment to handle it. For everything that we do should be in the Lord’s name and not our own.

-K.T Jacks ❤

Philippians 4:6-7

In nothing be anxious; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.


Dear God,

When I think of your love for me I don’t know where to begin. Your love has held my hand through some very tough times. I know that you have never left me and even when I couldn’t trace you. I could trust that you were there. I know that you are a comforter and my safe place.  I thank you for the promises you have fulfilled and the blessings you have showered me with. You have not only met my need, but you have always exceeded my expectations. Your Love has been a shield from the haters. When I could see traps being laid, lies being told, and situations being manipulated. You told me to,”Be still and know that I am God”.(Psalms 46:10).After many tests that I had to take, I know that means to be calm in my mind, in my spirit, emotions, and with my mouth. Even though I had the perfect clapbacks lined up and ready to go. My human reaction was submitted to you and aligned with your will. Thank you for being my defender and my defense. You are my fortress and I am completely surrounded and covered by your protection and love

Your Love is dependable. Your plan is to see me win in this life. You have been with me at the summit of my mountains and also in very deep valleys. Even when it appeared as if I was alone, you were there. My love for you is indescribable and your love for me is everlasting! You are a friend. The love you have for me is maturing me. I realize that you will never allow me to become complacent with being good. There will always be a push towards greatness. The expectation is to let my light shine and follow your lead. Being stretched beyond my limits doesn’t feel good, but it is good for me. In order to possess next level living, I have to be effective and efficient wherever I am. My history with you has shown that when things seem to be going absolutely crazy around me, elevation and blessings are right around the corner.

There is no way I could acknowledge all of your attributes in this post. My most favorite characteristic about you is that you are MY ROCK. It means you are the embodiment of stability and permanence.Things and people change daily, but you will remain the same now and forever more. No matter what happens everything will ALWAYS work out. When I think about your goodness and kindness towards me I have to put a praise on it. This Love is forever.Thank you for your AMAZING love and eternal support.

“ Everyday you are refining me so that I can be unbothered by the small stuff and keep my eyes on the Big plans.”

With Love,



Let’s talk about it share your comments below. I would love to know what His love means to you.

Love Regardless…

It’s so difficult to give your whole heart to a person only to watch it come back as void. It’s troublesome when the ones you care about misconceive your kindness for weakness. It’s insulting when you give freely only to be unappreciated, you can almost feel the bruises from them walking all over you without them laying a single finger on your physical body. But you endure the pain; for the times where they left you high and dry, for the resources they left you without, and for the blunt disregard they had towards you as a person.

Didn’t it hurt? But yet you tried and tried again…

The easiest thing we could do is wash our hands from that person. The hardest thing we could do is love them regardless

One of the hardest things the Lord has bestowed upon us is that we should love like Him. This is difficult because we are mere humans. I don’t know about anyone else but the human in me wants to walk away from you, wants to hate you, wants you to feel all the pain that you made me feel, wants to tell you about yourself and everyone around you. But the Christ in me won’t allow me to. Christ-like love means forgiving someone who hasn’t even apologized. It means being sympathetic even when you don’t know the circumstances. It means loving someone when it’s no longer convenient. It consists of putting your own selfish desires behind, all for love.

Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. – Ephesians 4:2

I know that it hurts but God sees everything especially if someone has wronged you. We are his children and vengeance is for Him, not us. We want to make justifications for our actions when we retaliate against other people but that doesn’t mean its Christ-like. When you love God with your whole heart you don’t have to worry about self, He has you covered. ❤

By all means, pray and seek the Lord for guidance. Study his word. Be wise. Draw boundaries. Guard your heart. Protect your assets. Take a break. Leave if you must. But keep love in your heart because God has never stopped loving us and we fail him daily.

1 Timothy 1:14

And the grace of our Lord was more than abundant, with the faith and love which are found in Christ Jesus.

K.T Jacks ❤



“And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect      harmony.”Colossians 3:14(ESV)

Love is the driving force of our existence.  It is intrinsic to our spiritual and physical frame. There are so many facets and depths to love that they can’t all be explored in a month’s time. The one thing that is common is that Love gives life meaning. Real love is an amazing feeling! It sustains and weathers the storms of life hand in hand. It is empathetic and has no shame in getting in the trenches to put work in for the long haul. Real love is not the epitome of perfection, but it is the picture of humility. Humility is the posture that loves flourishes in. It understands that in this stance there is always room to learn, improve, and grow. Real love is about reciprocity and not self-preservation. The language of love is our, we, and us.We should endeavor to speak it fluently. Love is content. It doesn’t become entangled in the web of comparison.Real love ain’t always right, but it can admit to being wrong.


The rivers of love flow from many different streams. If you are a parent you encounter it through your children. The love they give is innocent and priceless.  They love you, despite your faults and strengths. Maybe it is a laidback brother or an overprotective sister who is always in your corner showing unfailing support. Perhaps, parents or grandparents whose hugs and loving touch are the absolute BEST. The comfort that they give seems to make time stand still and all is well just for a moment. Love is a gift from God. When you are shown love, it is a glimpse of God. Love dwells in the sanctuary of your heart. It permeates the essence of who you are and is evidenced by how you talk, walk, and behave. It can be easily felt by all who cross your path.


I am grateful that I understand that life has unexpected twists and turns. At any given moment of the day, life can totally be rearranged. Every minute, second, and hour of the day is a Blessing. I NEVER take it for granted and neither should you. I let my family know that I LOVE them daily by speaking these words before we part ways. I challenge you to be intentional with your presence and attention. Take a deep breath, mute all distractions, and connect with those closest to you daily. Don’t allow yourself to be so consumed with the busyness of the day that you forget to SPEAK love to your loved ones.


“Love inscribes a lasting impression on the soul for a lifetime.”


This post is dedicated to My love, Mr.B. and my two Heartbeats you are my dreams realized!

 Let me know how you feel about love and what it means to you in the comments.

 Love Conquers All, ❤


A Letter To My Love

Dear Love ❤ ,

It’s something about experiencing a wrong love that makes you admire a right love. And as I reflect on right love all I can think about is our love.

Words can’t attempt to describe the scope of our relationship, but I want you to know how much I appreciate you. For the days where you choose my happiness over your own, for the nights that you carry the burdens of this household, for the times where you saw more in me than I saw in myself and for the moments where you displayed pure love just because. You find joy in the most simplistic of places. You find humor in the dullest moments. You make me laugh when I don’t want to be bothered, but most of all you’ve enlightened my purpose.

I remember when we first met and how everything seemed so clear. I adored your optimistic flair and I believe you adored how much I adored you. We talked on the phone like teenagers. We hung out like we were best friends. Although it may seem childlike now it was everything at that moment.

Your smile makes me want to get to know you all over again. Your brown eyes remind me of the first day we met. And somehow I can look at you and just know that everything will be okay. I apologize for the resentment I carried from my past and I thank you for your patience. I know that I am not the easiest person to get along with and I may suffer from the” know it all syndrome “,but thank you for focusing more on my heart than my words. Thank you for seeing yourself in me as your rib. Thank you for your patience. Thank you for being a friend, a listening ear, and a soul mate.

As we reminisce on the past and embark upon the future may our love remain the shield to our happiness.

I love you.

K.T Jacks ❤

Colossians 3:14

And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

Send this to your love during this week of love! ❤

Wrong Love:Top 5 Ways to Identify It

“Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love” (John 4:8)

Loving the wrong person is a very big deal. Being in a relationship with the wrong person can change the trajectory of your ENTIRE relationship. It is so important to discern the world’s ideas and God’s principles regarding love. The world’s ideas about love teach you to be tolerant of detrimental behaviors because that is the NEW normal. The more we are exposed to these ideas, we slowly become desensitized to what is wrong and reject the truth. Meanwhile, it destroys the core of who you are called to be and could possibly block the path to who He has for you. To recklessly give your heart to just anyone can have a catastrophic outcome. Guard your heart and your mind.


When I think about all the preparation that goes into catching a flight at the airport it can be overwhelming. So there’s packing suitcases, having the necessary paperwork, security checkpoints and making sure all toiletries are in the correct containers. Yes, this is an inconvenience and you can still have flight cancellations and delays. You may say,” I have done everything right now what?” But can I tell you that the security checkpoints are for your safety.Due to the tragic events that we have experienced in the past with terrorist attacks, it was mandatory to change how we travel. If we didn’t, we would run the risk of similar events happening again. This idea juxtaposed to the matters of the heart works the same way. When you grant access to someone and they bypass certain checkpoints it is a threat to your mental and emotional security. The cost of that is far too great. When you don’t make the necessary changes you end up in a repeat relationship or situationship. It doesn’t matter who you are with the outcome will always be the same. Wrong love is predictable. The lesson to be learned in wrong love is more about you than who you are with.


“Wrong Love is better than No Love.” There are so many things to unpack with this unhealthy mentality. When a person’s conversations insinuate this idea. It makes me cringe and I feel a great deal of sadness. In my mind, there may be a possible battle with self-esteem and or the idea that this is the best that I can do. Even if that means you know the relationship isn’t working you are willing to make the sacrifice. There are various reasons why people settle, but what I know is that they may not have the full revelation of who they are. When you don’t know who you are and whose you are anything will work. God designed for you to have His absolute Best!


1)Abuse– Mental, physical or verbal is completely unacceptable. All three stem from manipulation and control and this is not of God. They are equally destructive and if endured long enough can unravel at the seam the very fiber of who God created you to be. Real love doesn’t hurt or hinder. Real love helps.It isn’t fearful, but it’s trustworthy.Wrong love humiliates while real love covers.

“If someone lacks self -control over their temper, hands, or their tongue they aren’t submitted to God.”

2)Untitled relationship-Wrong love revels in the fact of being let off the hook when the relationship is not defined. It’s makes playing games with your heart legal. This way there is no expectation and the intent is never established. God never intended for you to date casually nor to allow random people to mishandle you. Then when sex is added outside of the confines of marriage (fornication) it further complicates and confuses everyone involved. This plan doesn’t follow the blueprint.

3)The mismatchedLove-The bible tells us to not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. It is pretty clear-cut. If you date or marry someone who doesn’t share your faith you could be lead astray.

“Never get comfortable with compromise the price of the consequence is costly.”

4)Intuition-The still small voice we have, but sometimes choose to ignore. If there is no peace about who you are with explore the feelings of unrest.
5)The Village disapproves-When trusted family and friends have reservations about your significant other. It deserves your attention immediately because they love and want the best for you. Love is blind, but you must receive their concern from a place of love and not war.

God wants to be a part of every aspect of your life He is the Original Matchmaker. If He knew you before the foundation of the world, then He knew who would best compliment you.

Be Blessed<3,